Robyn is the only debator who has a blog I can actually read. I read her friend Rachael's blog, and I was like, (pardon the Singlish)
"ai yoh, why so cheem?"
Yes, I actually think in Singlish (and hokkien, or whatever 'cheem/chim' is). When I feel like it.
Blogging is a personal/public thing. You don't want to go all formal on people, but since there isn't any right/wrong, each to her own...
From now on, I am going to say her/him, each to her own, etc etc. Femmes rule! Males are just biches with extra pieces of flesh. And horn.
For your information, biche is doe, not bitch. Femmes means females.